★ P r a i s e * t h e * L o r d * w i t h * a l l * y o u r * h e a r t ★

Tuesday, January 5, 2010,11:40 PM

It's indeed a busy busy 2010!~ My New resolution was to work harder this year and it came through on the very first working day of the year. -.-""" I was teased because of this. =SSS Oh when I am catching up with the stuffs at work. Doing the things I am suppose to do one by one; thank God I cleared quite a few today and I am very happy!~ Lalala!~ Hehe!~

More to go tomorrow lah!~ I guess I must really plan my things to make sure I don't leave out anything till the last minute... God please help me and guide me, give me the wisdom to organise the things I am suppose to complete. I am leaving everything into Your hands, trusting You like never before...

I love You Lord... I believe it gonna be a GREAT 2010 ahead!!!

God bless everyone out there!~

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★

Saturday, December 19, 2009,12:12 PM

Recently, my baby had been really sweet to me... His little little actions and the way he called me really moved and touched my heart!~~~ Well I guess this should start off by saying he's not really a expressive person? Someone whom doesn't say "I miss you" or "I love you" often like some others guys might. Well this is something that got me awhile to understand and accept as my boyfriend previously was very much of a expressive one.

In order to accept this little fact, I learnt to pick up the little things he does for me, his way of showing he love and care for me. Bit by bit I learnt to accept my baby for who he is. I told him, I believe that no one stays the same and know that one day he will learn how to be more expressive in every way. Hehe!~ Ladies first basic need AFFECTIONS!~ That is one thing that really keep the ladies to stay in love their guys. =)))

Baby!~ You are awesome and special in many ways!~ Be who you are and get BETTER!~ Wahaha!~ No one wanna stay the same...

P.s although you said, you are just doing the way you feel like it, I pray that even one day you don't feel like doing/saying certain things, you would make a decision to do it. =)))

19 Dec 2009

12:34hrs

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★

Tuesday, December 1, 2009,12:38 AM

Every time I attend a wedding many thought will cross my mind. Things such as whom will be the one I marry. How would my life be after me being married? I wonder if I should be afraid or looking forward to getting married. WAHAHA!~

Oh well I used to looked forward but when things happened, the thought was shoved aside. It was well hidden until recently the urge of wanting to get married came back. After been through so much... I learnt that there's no a perfect HIM. But is how you wanna accept for who he is.

Some of you might hate me for saying this now; for not giving myself to realise this before it's too late but somehow I guess everything happen for a reason. After everything that had happened, give yourself a pat on the back and say everything gonna be alright and I am ready to move on again. The worst thing that can happen in life is you are always stuck at the very same position.

Now that I am with him, I really wanna work everything out with him. Yes, he's not the perfect one, may not even be every girls' kind of Prince Charming but he's the one I choose. Someone who is not only my lover but my best friend. Someone whom I can share my thoughts, someone who listens to me and understand why I say certain things when at times I don't even know.

Someone who doesn't judge me, someone who teach me to look at things from all angles. Someone who pampers me but not spoil me, someone who gave my life a whole new experience that I never had before. Yes, I am in love, so in love...

I pray for the best for the both of us... =)))

Yes we are the ~!*K & P*!~

01 Dec 2009

01:00hrs

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★

Tuesday, August 11, 2009,3:09 PM

It's the beginning of my block leave officially. I went for lunch with my parents and went home to watch Half Man, Half Tree with my dad. After the show I simply fall asleep on the sofa; as usual hee... However, I woke up when I heard my dad wanna go wash car. Ok this is one thing that I wanna do during this block leave ok.

Well I don't wanna be someone who only know how to use but not how to take care. I admit until now I am still learning to maintain my beloved car by having the good driving habits but still... Haiz... As I wish the car I feel so happy after it's clean and shiny but when I saw all the scar that I gave to the car, I was guilty and heartache. Sobz... My dad doesn't seems very pleased but well, I will make extra effort to be extra careful ba...

Many things came to my mind when I was washing the car and seems like there's so many things I am looking forward to. I just pray that God will make a way for the things I am looking forward to. I really wish all the things that I hope will quickly come to past; hopefully everything on my birthday but I know there isn't much time left... Well I gonna leave everything in the hands of God; the safest of all.

Lord I thank You for everything that you somehow let it happen and I learnt from it and the wonderful things that are yet to come. I love You.

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★

Monday, August 3, 2009,11:22 PM

02 August 2009, CHC's 20th Anniversary... It was a really wonderful time I had at the indoor stadium. Throughout the whole 2 services many things and memories came to my mind and one of them was the 16th Anniversary of CHC.

I recalled that time was the first time ever I invited you to church. Afraid of being rejected, I really hesitated to pop that question. However, with the peace of God, I finally asked. Elated I was when your respond is a positive one, and then I realised you truly love me.

On the 16th Anniversary and was our 3rd month anniversary then mark a significance meaning to our relationship. I never deny our relationship was almost perfect and everything seems so planned by God. However, things wasn't always fall into place as we expected.

Nevertheless, I will never forget this special relationship we had and whatever the future may be I thank you for everything you had done in my life that makes Annabelle Heng today.

God bless you like never before...

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★

Saturday, April 11, 2009,9:30 PM

PRAISE THE LORD!!!
I finally got my driving licence on the 30 March 2009. I'm so proud to say i got my licence on my 21st year on Earth wahaha... Well it's just making my 21st year more meaningful only. Come to think of it, many things really happened on my 21st year on this Earth. Really a lot a lot, including the goods and bads...

Through the past few months, I really learnt a lot of things and also come to realise many things which I did not take notice before. Meeting with different people really change my thinking and my attitude. I guess life is all about learning and accepting the changes that happen in life.

All this while I really wanna thank God for always with me; without Him I guess I would have gone crazy or what hehe.. I am looking forward for greater things to come my way.

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★

Sunday, March 22, 2009,11:19 AM

Love is an intense feeling, in a marriage couple will either fall deeper in love with each other or fall out of love. There's no such thing as neutral gear. Our emotions are constantly checking on our Love Bank. A person’s account increases/decreases in our Love Bank is by the things they do to us. When an account increases over the mark of the “Romantic love threshold” the couple is now ready to get married. =D However, only in a marriage the both of them would really see the BEST and WORST of each other.

What is true love?
*1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New Living Translation)
4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

歌林多前書 13:4-7 (Chinese Union Version (Simplified))
4 爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒；爱是不自夸，不张狂， 5 不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶， 6 不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理； 7 凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。

However, the effects of love busters are Abusive, Controlling and Habit pattern.

In a marriage, it will take out the two sides to a person; a “Giver” and a “Taker”.

Attributes of a Giver:
- I will do whatever I can to benefit you even when I am unhappy.
- Love unconditionally.

Attributes of a Taker:
- I will do whatever I can to benefit myself even when you are unhappy.

3 different stages of marriage:

Intimacy – the love feeling is so intense that both of you will do anything just to make each other happy. =)
- Giver
- Love

Conflict – the love feeling went down and both of you just want take what you want just to make yourself happy.
- Taker
- Fights

Withdrawal – the love feeling is no more there and because of you are tired of fighting already, you both just decided not to be bothered about each other and live a separate life.
- Taker
- Give up

6 Love Busters

1) Selfish demands (abusive and controlling)
1 Corinthians 13:5 (New Living Translation)
5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.

“Policy of Joint Agreement”
Never do anything without an ENTHUSIASTIC AGREEMENT between you and your spouse.

- When you are enthusiastic means you are happy to do; it will help increase love units in each other’s Love Bank account if both of you do it.

So instead of making Selfish demands you should make “Thoughtful Requests”.
Thoughtful -> Considerate, you think for the person
Requests -> Ready to accept “no” as an answer.

2) Disrespectful Judgments

“Respectful Persuasion”
- Love your neighbor as yourself.
- Allow yourself to be persuasion back.

3) Angry outburst

- Angry outburst aims to PUNISH!

How to deal with Angry outburst?
a) Acknowledge
b) Recognize
c) Policy of Joint Agreement
d) Avoid Love Buster 1 and 2

- Never lose your temper on your spouse

With Love, ♥
★ Annabelle ★